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Sexual immorality is on the increase all over the world. Adultery is fast becoming the norm and some men of God are also joining the, club, married men and women are not left out either, many are having secret lovers and emotional affairs are becoming the order of the day.
The rate at which immorality is increasing is alarming! It is spreading fast into every nook and cranny and children are also being initiated into the club. It's no news to know that 8-10 years old kids now have sex with each other. Staying sexually pure these days is becoming a Herculean task.
Again, why is the rate in which people involve in sex increasing? Why is it that only girls are asked to keep their virginity?, What about us men?, eeh?. I have hard many people talk about girls keeping their virginity and some men even insult those that are not virgin. But my question is, is it only girls that are meant to keep their virginity?.
What about us men? How will a lady keep her virginity when men are always asking about sex?. I think sex is loosing its initial meaning because sex was to be sacred for it was reccomended by God. Sex has to serve two roles according to theological study; for pleasure and for procreation but many people nowadays are misusing it making it loose its meaning.
One of the reasons people fall flat into illicit sex is over confidence.The wrong belief that you can be free around the opposite sex and nothing would happen is a big lie from the pit of hell, that belief is meant to deceive people, a lot happens!
One of the ways you can stay sexually pure whether married or single these end time is to set strict boundaries.If you are too careless around the opposite sex, you will fall flat on your face! That is the truth. The earlier you believe this and work on it, the better. You can't be careless around the opposite sex and hope to stay sexually pure, set boundaries!.
There are some people who can't be your friends, it's okay to raise the standard. Anybody can call you names, that's their headache, you have your destiny to protect.
As a rule, I don't make friends with liars, gossips and jealous people. They make life so complicated. If you believe in illicit sex, we can't be friends, period!
Monitor your chats. Don't allow anybody send you flirty messages, no matter how innocent it sounds, warn them and if they refuse to stop, block them!
Limit the hugs and touches, especially with the opposite sex. If your hugging anointing is only for me, I want none of it.
Don't allow anybody call you pet names (except your close family members and close same sex friends if necessary), a friend recently made me realise that, it doesn't make any sense. Pet names turn the opposite sex on, if you don't know that, know it now you know.
Be sensitive to attractions. Don't be naive around the opposite sex, know when a man/woman is sexually attracted to you and move back from that person. If they focus too much on your physique and body, they are sexually attracted to you, move back.
Know when you are sexually attracted to someone and move back. It's perfectly normal to have chemistry for someone. Marrying the greatest man on earth or the most beautiful, virtuous woman in the universe will not automatically stop you from being attracted to someone else. Know when the thought of another man/woman gets you excited and move back.
Don't jump at new relationships. Give it time, study the person, know what they stand for, see if your core values are compatible, if not, move back!.
Leadership attracts all kinds of people. If you are a leader or you are gifted, talented or intelligent, the opposite sex will show more interest in you, be careful whom you allow to get close to you.
Accept gifts with care. Men don't joke with their time and money. If he spends so much time and money on you especially when you do not ask, he may one day ask for sex.
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